Thinking back to the start of the programme when we talked about looking at the reasons you want to lose weight; did any of them focus on body shape/size?
Despite people listing many various reasons for losing weight, I have heard countless times how people will only be happy once they’ve got to a certain weight/size. I hear this even when they have lost weight and have an improved quality of life. So why does your happiness depend on and have to wait till you are a certain body size/shape?
Our society’s diet culture, values our weight, shape and size over health and wellbeing. It is a set of pervasive beliefs that worship being thin and places this as the pinnacle of success and beauty. This leads a culture where appearance and body shape are more important than physical, psychological, and general wellbeing.
Unsurpisingly, this leads to people believing that they need to be a smaller weight and be like the images they see on social media and in magazines. In our weight management service we know there is no right’ body size/image and therefore focusing on making healthy lifestyle choices is more important than following restrictive diets.
Body image is defined as a person’s attitude towards their body and their perception of it. It is influenced by family, friends, media and, life experiences. Take some time to:
- Consider factors that have influenced your body image
- Consider your genetics
- Consider what you do like about your body
- Identify activities that help you feel good in your body
- Reduce body checking and avoidance
- Consider the features that make other people attractive. Is it always purely their appearance? Or is it also their personality, attitude and actions?
For more information about body image see the resources of the Centre for Clinical Interventions (see link at the end of the article).